In an earlier post, I recommend not engaging in a new relationship during Kundalini awakening until our Kundalini is stabilized, because we will inadvertently hurt those we love during this process. Of course, if you are in an existing long term relationship, it may survive the turbulence and chaos of Kundalini awakening. Trust me, your existing relationship will be tested to its limits.
The question then remains, how do we know when our Kundalini awakening is stabilized? At least from my experience, there are several conditions that will indicate stabilization. The first is transmuting the sexual energy initially raised during Kundalini rising that will vibrate in our lower chakras such as root, sacrum, or solar plexus to a higher chakra and frequency. When this occurs, the urgent sexual urges will subside.
Our energy will vibrate in our upper chakras, such as heart, third eye, or crown. The energy will feel very different as it will feel like bliss or love energy achieved when we practice self love. I was able to accomplish this through “Emotional Release Practice.” When we practice emotional release work, we are healing the emotional wounds within our painbodies stored in our emotional landscape. To try this practice, please see the “Emotional Release Practice” tab on my Blog Homepage.
The next most important change reflecting stabilization is releasing ego. When we release our egos, fears from our past and anxiety about our future will dissipate. This also will help with our Emotional Release Practice as fears will be raised when we confront and deal with our emotional pain from trauma and hurt from our past.
When fear dissipates, we are able to feel and easily practice forgiveness, unconditional love, and compassion. When we release ego, we will no longer react out of ego, and therefore, we no longer feel anger, resentment, slighted, hurt, envy, jealousy, etc. We react calmly, logically, and objectively even when others may be yelling or screaming at us. To practice releasing ego, please see the tab on “Observing Ego Practice” on my Blog Homepage.
What I described above is what I call ascension work, but you may use other ascension practices or methods as mine is only one of many methods. If you don’t do the ascension work, you will not stabilize as it will not just happen on its own. Many who are Kundalini active after many years still have not stabilized to enjoy a stable and happy life, so I urge you to begin your work today. Never give up on yourself as you are deserving of a happy, joyful, and stable life and engage in healthy Awakening Journey with All Rights Reserved)