For a long time, I wondered what I was doing wrong that I never found the right partner in my life. Upon reflection, I realized that it was my own confusion about this within myself. I thought all the Mr. Wrongs were Mr. Rights. When we are confused internally on what is right or best for us, we will never find Mr. or Ms. Right.
This is what I have learned. Before we find Mr. or Ms. Right, we first must get rid of Mr. or Ms. Wrong. In order to get rid of Mr. or Ms. Wrong, we must learn what is right or best for our lives. How do we accomplish this? We must improve our self esteem and worth through accepting and loving ourselves. When we truly embrace self love in our lives, we begin to recognize what is best for us and right for our lives. I accomplished this through Emotional Release Practice, but there are other forms of emotional healing practices as well.
Part of finding our path to Mr. or Ms. Right is our ability to release or let go of the attraction to Mr. and Ms. Wrong. How do we know we are with Mr. or Ms. Wrong? The signs are quite obvious, but we must be willing to see it, which is a huge hurdle. Our friends and family will frequently clue us in that our partners cheat on us, lie to us, blame us for everything in their lives, physically, sexually, or emotionally abuse us, or even sexually or physically assault us. The signs are usually quite clear, but we refuse to see our own realities, and become angry or deny it when our friends and family warn us.
Once you do your emotional healing work, you will begin to see your reality clearer and clearer, and one day you just say, “I deserve better than this.” These little magic words are your sign of recovery, and the power within to let go and release the Mr. and Ms. Wrongs in your life. When you are able to let go of the Mr. and Ms. Wrongs in your life, you will begin to identify them in your future, and will never even engage with them again as you see them coming a mile away.
This is the secret to finding Mr. or Ms. Right in your life as they will more likely be a soulmate or twin flame. Therefore, we must learn to let go or release Mr. and Ms. Wrong in our lives before we are rewarded with Mr. or Ms. Right. Sending love and peace to you! (Copyright 2016 Awakening Journey with All Rights Reserved)