Letter to the Other Woman

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http://themindsjournal.com/a-letter-to-the-other-woman/ (to see the complete letter)

“Psychopathic mind games are invincible to everything but love. I will not carry on his legacy by taking part in these triangles anymore, injecting jealousy & hatred to fill the void of his soul.  I’ve made it through to the other side, and I know you can too. Please have the same empathy for the woman who replaces you. We can only ever stop this cycle of abuse with compassion for one another. By recognizing that all human beings deserve to be treated with respect, kindness, and honesty. By recognizing that there is no other woman – we are all that woman.”  Thank you for saving me from a life of despair, heartbreak, and disapointment.

From the woman who is finally free!

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2 comments on “Letter to the Other Woman

  1. “Another woman will enter the scene. It is inevitable in relationships with narcissistic men. You will be strung along for as long as possible, as I once was. Your increasingly volatile reactions will be used against you, to evoke sympathy from the new target.”

    I’m almost in tears right now, cause rid article spoke to me in every single way. I was with my ex for 3 years, and he always claimed his ex was crazy and stalking him and always cheated on him. I was so blinded. I became friends with a much younger girl and we instantly became close (I was about 27 she was 21), and I moved her into my home with my boyfriend and I. Well behind my back they started up a secret relationship and I was clueless to it . For that time he treated me like a POS, and passive aggressively made me break up with him, but made me think it was all my idea . He faked the heart ache and maintained this “friendship” with my best friend. Well when I realized what was going on, I went off on her and I was forever from then on out deemed the crazy psycho delusional obsessive ex, and she was the star of the show. This was his master plan , and I had to move far away cause he alienated me from everyone I knew. If I could go back in time I think the only thing I would change is the way i handled it. Thanks for this post. Brings up a lot of crap that I need to force myself to deal with , even almost 5 years later I’m still not fully healed.

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    • I am so sorry that you had this experience. I was both women too, and learned my lesson the hard way as I took him back three times. I am still forgiving myself now. Forgiveness of yourself and others is the only way to move on, but never forget this important life lesson. Sending healing love to you.💞💕

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