Today, as I was having lunch with a girlfriend, we shared the most interesting coincidences. She shared with me that during the last week, she heard from or saw her last three ex’s, and one lives in Colorado. I also heard from or saw three of my ex’s in the past month. Two of my ex’s live near me, but the third told me he lives in Las Vagas now who I had not heard from in over thirty years.
How could this be happening to both of us? These coincidences we determine were not coincidences at all, but synchronicity or rather tests of whether we have learned our life lessons. Both of us have been trying to move on past our ex’s onto other relationships. Now, both of us are confronted with the test of whether we have learned our life lessons, and are sufficiently emotionally healed to move successfully foward on our journey onto the next relationship.
I believe that when we send out thoughts of our dreams or wishes, the Universe sends us signs of our readiness and ability to successfully move foward. We both have opportunities with other men for a new relationship now, but both have been hesitant to move foward. On our test, we have been confronted with the most important issue which is: have we learned to love ourselves and healed from those relationships to be able to set healthy physical and emotional boundaries in order to protect and take care of ourselves? In both our situations, these ex’s were not the right fit for us, were abusive and controlling, or clingy and emotionally troubled.
I am not certain what my friend intends to do for her test, but I have decided to set very clear boundaries with my ex’s that I do not wish to have a romantic relationship with them, and for some, I wish to have no further contacts in the future. I realize now that if I no longer feel fear, resentment, yearning, or attachment to these ex’s then I have passed the test, and am able to move foward on my journey onto a successful relationship. I believe that I am well on my way. (Copyright 2016 Awakening Journey with All Rights Reserved)