As I began my new job about a month ago, I have come to realize that many of the old issues are repeating. I am seeing the same issues with different people, and the Universe has brought back lessons apparently I have not fully learned. At work, I am encountering people who do not take responsibility for themselves, point fingers, and blame others for their failures.
My supervisor is very passive and is terrified of offending others, and as I set boundaries and hold others accountable, she also blames me for attempting to set healthy boundaries. The question I am asking myself and the Universe is why is this happening? What am I doing wrong? Why has she been sent to me?
This is the same dysfunctional behavior from my childhood. The school where I work is filled with chaos, drama, and people behaving badly toward each other. Why am I still attracting this in my life? How do I overcome being around this bad behaviors without becoming part of these bad behaviors?
In my personal life, I earlier encountered individuals who behaved badly and created horrible drama through infidelity, cheating, lying, deception, and general disrespectful behaviors. I have finally found people who take responsibility for themselves in my personal life now, and treat others with respect and with healthy boundaries. But why am I still attracting these bad behaviors at work?
My guess is that I must transcend this bad behavior and must not feed into the drama and chaos at work. I must rise above this chaos without being drawn into it, and when I do, I will finally be released from these people and no longer react to them. I believe this is the reason that they are still here in my work life as I have not learned what I still need to learn. (Copyright 2016 Awakening Journey with All Rights Reserved).